- Humans subconsciously associate large, dilated pupils with deep love and sexual arousal. You can't control your pupils, but you can force theirs to dilate.
HOW TO DO IT :
- 1- Position yourself so that the light source (a window or lamp) is behind them, shining into your face.
- 2-This means their face is slightly in shadow, forcing their pupils to dilate to let in more light.
- 3-Hold intense, relaxed eye contact.
WHY IT WORKS :
- Their brain registers their own dilated pupils and your intense eye contact. Their nervous system misinterprets this biological lighting response as extreme physical chemistry. They will literally 'feel a spark' and not know why.