Vulnerability Spike

 

  • Small talk keeps people's walls up. This question pierces right through the armor.

THE QUESTION :

  • What is the one thing you are most excited about right now?

OR DEEPER :

  • What is something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t done yet?

WHY IT WORKS :

  • If you are in a bright room, their pupils should be small. If you are in a bright room and their pupils are STILL huge when looking at you, that is the strongest biological sign of love that exists. It means their brain is trying to take in as much of 'you' as possible.