Takeaway Method

 

  • This technique makes them feel like they are not 'good enough' for you without you actually saying it.

HOW TO DO IT :

  • When they do something slightly annoying or cancel plans, say this: 'You know, I used to think you were different from the other guys/girls, but now I’m not so sure.'

WHY IT WORKS :

  • It attacks their ego. They want to be 'different' and 'special.' By saying you are losing that belief, they will panic and work extra hard to prove to you that they are special. You become the judge, and they become the contestant..