Pedestal Removal

 

  • Attractive people are used to being worshipped. To make them chase you, you must be the one person who judges them.

HOW TO DO IT :

You need to use a 'Playful Disqualifier.' Give them a compliment, but immediately take it back or question it.

  • 'You’re actually really cute... it’s too bad you look like trouble.'
  • 'I love your energy, but I’m not sure if we would get along. You seem a bit too [high maintenance / wild / nice] for me.'

WHY IT WORKS :

  • This knocks them off the pedestal. Instead of thinking 'Does this person like me?' (which they assume is a Yes), they start thinking 'Wait, why wouldn't we get along? I need to prove I'm cool.' You become the prize they have to win