- This is a grooming behavior that signals deep affection and intimacy.
HOW TO DO IT :
If you are sitting close to them (on a couch or booth):
- Notice a piece of lint, an eyelash, or a messy hair on them (even if there isn't one).
- Reach out gently.
- Brush it off their shoulder or fix their hair.
- Let your hand linger for a second.
WHY IT WORKS :
- Grooming is a primate bonding behavior. By 'fixing' them, you are claiming them as yours. It breaks the personal bubble in a caring way that they cannot reject.
