- This is the most subtle way to tell someone 'You are nothing to me' without using words.
HOW TO DO IT :
Instead of doing a favor for them, ask them to do a small favor for you.
Can you hold this for a second?'
Can I borrow your pen?'
Can you give me your opinion on this picture?'
WHY IT WORKS :
- The human brain hates contradiction. If they do something nice for you, their brain must justify it by thinking: 'I am helping this person, therefore I must like them.' It subconsciously builds a bond of loyalty without you having to do anything.
